I'm such a threat...watch your women, men...

I just had to throw this out and say it. But, I just want to know how is it that when I have my female friends get into relationships (which now days seems to be the new thing to do), how is it that the male significant other always and I do mean ALWAYS seem to have such an issue with me. Most just get this idea to hunker down the relationship defenses and man the boyfriend cannons. The Vandals are heading for the gates and pillaging the hearts of your loves.

The whole thing is almost laughable but, I had dealt with all this ever since high school. A few men who have such a special fear out of me and for what?? Hell I wish I knew. I am not just some guy who have such a suave style to come up and snatch your woman. Hell I wish I had that ability. I'll be popping a few famous chicks and porn stars if I had that power. I just find it funny cause I lost friendships with some folks for the exact reason. Cause I'm a friend who just have such a down-to-earth heart and a good ear. I guess that makes me a threat or is it that cause these insecure men feel that if one has a penis, they are a threat. Well listen up morons, if you do right by your woman and keep her happy, she won't stray. Ever thought of that? The again, I known that a few women like a man that's jealous minded and stuff; because they like to know a man is jealous minded cause it shows their women they care. I never bought that outlandish bullshit before; I always believed you do what you do to keep ya woman happy nothing or noone would asunder the relationship. But, I guess that the notion is true. A person is only as faithful as the options available.

I do find it kind of sad that many friendships are lost cause of the jealous minded significant other has to lay down edicts saying: Nope you can't be friends with so and so for the one fact that they are the same gender as the "so-called" offender. I just find it hilarious if I had a few points to laugh at.

Nevertheless, let me leave a few points of advice for those insecure folks from BOTH genders: just cause you have fears don't make them a self-fulfilled prophecy by being a total jack-wagon. and number two...have faith in the relationship. UUUGH

SAW